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I often talk about the concept of ATTRACTION, and why
it's more important than anything else when it comes to
being successful with women and dating. Well, one of the
amazing aspects of ATTRACTION is that it can be turned
up and down. You can actually AMPLIFY an initial
attraction... if you know how.
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Of course, anytime you "play it safe"
around an attractive woman by being a "nice guy" and
trying to "follow her lead" you are ABSOLUTELY going to
do something that's going to backfire on you MOST of the
time. In other words, by playing it safe and being a
"nice" guy, you won't get any "negative" responses or
"rejection" in the moment. But she's NEVER going to feel
ATTRACTION for you, either. |
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If you ABSOLUTELY CAN'T HELP
YOURSELF and you just HAVE to take a woman
to dinner, at least frame it as "I want to
go out to this favorite restaurant of mine,
and if you'd like to go you're welcome to
join me." Then if you decide to pay it can
be something you were doing for yourself,
and you were being POLITE by paying for
hers. If you do this, make it clear that
you're there because you want to go there,
and it's not to court her! |
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